Sunday, August 1, 2010

Thats what friends are for......

Just a few hrs back i was sulking coz i am back in JSR......but i had an amazing bitching session over dinner with Deepika and i am back....i suddenly realized i need to write things down and thank each one of u for pulling me out of the mess i got into last year....i met a few of you, some i cudnt cause i just didnt have the time and some coz they didnt have the time.....maybe next time!!

Did u notice the number of i's have used in the last para?????? Total 10. Shit!! I am a SELF OBSESSED Bitch!! So this post aint going to be about me its about alll of u who have beeeen such amazing friends.....i love u loads (hugs & kissess)!! What better day then the 1st sunday of August (Friendship Day)....the start of the fav part of the year & my Bday month!!

I dont know from whom to start.....maybe i shud start with what i had written in my last post....last year was the year i truly came to know who my true friends were....some broke my heart....some new ones just came and filled up the gaps....and some remained with me like they had in the past!!

Let me start with Rishiparna.....she really suprised me....i didnt know how great a friend she was till i moved to bombay....u were the first person who actually came and dropped me to the airport and picked me up from the station .....seriously prior to that only parents had that right....i was the independent young gurl lugggging the luggage always!! When i came back to delhi jobless and alll .....this spoilt only daughter who had never shared her roooom with anyone....shared everything with me.....thanks babe i must have been such a pain! U were my anchor.

Preeti and Swati.....u guys really heard me out...be it on G Talk, Maxims, in your house, u were always there to listen to me.....I dont knw how much money i borrowed.....i lost count after a point....Swati u actually became my bank at times!!

Natasha & Prakash.....they are the ones who made me party even in those horrid days.....kept the scotch flowing and gave me hope....the only partying that i did was with the 2 of u!!! Its sad that we cudnt have a session when i was in delhi.....maybe next time! Natasha love u a lot.....we relate at another level....the village gurls who went to boarding schools, we are stubborn and we are fighters....no we dont give in that easily...no matter what! For all those ppl who think we have tooo much attitude and are snobs....the simple truth is that we dont know how to fake affection and we love ourselves more than anything else in the world!

Swapnil......i guess both of us were going thru the same phase....it really brought us together... we sulked & cried over the same things!! First the joblessness and then the constant pressure to get married and other such things like horrid boys we were made to see!! I guess i was more stubborn and further away from parents that i have stuck it out till now.....my times cming toooo i guess!! Do excuse me if i have been bitchy in any way....give me a calll one of these days....i have loads to telll u!

Abhishek Dahuja......Good boy...I never really considered u a friend back in the C 82 days....tune to mujhe FB pe block kiya tha....iski kahani bhi bata de....kaun tha iske piche!! i was very hurt! anyways u entertained us during meals and gave the much required moral support at times!! Hum tere barein mein kaafi gossips karte the ;-) Ab hum tujhe bad boy bana ke manein ge!

U guys were the ones who kept me going in those bad days....but things did start looking better when i got a Job in the NGO....

And then Jamshedpur happened!

Shweta.....I wudnt have survived this village if it werent for u!! First u got me hooked to a healthy diet....then i was gyming....and loosing all those kilos....then the amazing advise on dressing up and necklaces and earings and other gurlie stuff.....the N number of visits to dupatta Sagar. If u hadnt handed over the keys of your car and told me to drive....i guess i wud have been taking the shared auto to office.
There are not too many ppl i am in awe of .....i guess u are one of them.... a real daring babe!! If I had a daughter i wud tell her to be like shweta aunty!!

Deepika: Babe i think we have had a ball the last 2 months, we are having a blast in JSR udaaan style.....i was like we do exactly the same things....driving arnd like freaks, going to the lake and all the other small town funnn....like running in the bistupur market....khabar's that make it to prabhat khabar (Local Daily of JSR), XLRI roof top, 10th milestone, marine drive, little italy....... Rolling down the window and saying hellllllooooo to random boy was the funniest...i actually thought it was Raghu....ofcourse it is much fun laughing at the likes of our veryyyy own Tom Cruise. Welll we must make it to ASPIRE! We must stop each other from going overboard....crazies that we are! Well there is always that one friend you spend the max time with...In JSR you are the one!!

Welll there are many of u who are constants.....friends who remain forever....i may not meet u....i may not talk to u in ages....Hell nowdays facebook takes care of that!!

Pooja, Juhi, Manvi, Kavi, Shreya, Smitha, Ankit...i havent written a wrd abt u guys, except shreya i havent met most of u in ages.....but u are my constants.....love u and miss u loads!!

6 comments:

  1. Love you Pankhu x And we are definitely meeting soon!

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  2. Happy is Happy to have a friend like you! and HAPPY is ME cause you are my friend :) God bless you my dear. Lots of love

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  3. aww pankhs. happy friendship day to you too.. yes we havent seen each other in ages. but in some relationships distance doesn't matter. :)
    miss you and please start travelling with all the money ur saving.. ur always welcome here.. we will have a ball.. dont sulk cuz u r in jamshedpur.. im in 'phoreign' country.. n yet i have no social life. starts with school and ends with work.. i dont have a friend to call my own.. nothing like it was in school and college... it doesnt matter where you are!! just make the most of your time in the place that u are. and dont lose the bigger picture.. ur there for a reason and thats it. its a passing phase!! and my love this too shall pass.. :)
    its 12am i jsut got home, took a shower.. and off to bed to wake up at 630am.. for another full power day!! love you.. take care and keep writing..

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  4. hey pinkhu...
    i have constantly been advising you on getting into creative writing..do u know how good you are..and thanks a ton for those wonderful words that you have enthralled me with..i will make sure that prakash reads it too.
    its been a real pleasure knowing you and the only regret i have is that wish we were in contact when i was getting married..the fun would have multiplied but no worries, i m not missing yours for anything on earth..even if it takes place in jmdr..we will be there with our beaming smiles trying to make giggle, support you.and may be even help you run..i always feel u are gonna be our Julia Roberts of runaway bride..
    next time when you are down here in Delhi..we will definitely go out and party..
    take care and we lovvvvvvvvvvvve you.

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  5. pankhuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu loved it :) and love you ever so much! mauh

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  6. punks jst figured out hw 2 gt thru ur blog.vry nc reading it made. 4 once i felt i was getting d "oscars". thanks 4 d honour.
    b urself always cos thats d easiest thing 2 do.may u 4evhi r n evr n evr b happy n chirpy.lv shweta

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